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Budai finds a new home

I have been given a number of Laughing Buddhas to give away on my pilgrimage.
I have learned that he represents a Chinese monk from around 1,000 years ago, believed to be an incarnation the future buddha (Maitreya),
Laughing Buddha is known as Budai in China, Hotei in Japan.  The name means “cotton/cloth sack.”
As protector of the poor, weak, and children he traveled with an everlasting sack of food handing out to those in need, or collecting and taking away the suffering of others.
Budai became known as the god of contentment and abundance.

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This Buddha was chosen by a young Vietnamese woman I met recently who has been living in Australia for about a year. The bowl held above the head can carry fruit or a pearl of wisdom. We discussed Budai’s connection with abundance.

May her time in this country be supportive and growthful.

Buddha donated by Alison, Melbourne Australia

An update from a story in March…

Update on the story which saw myself and a friend Julie give out two Buddhas to the same young guy in Melbourne in March . We were both unaware that we had chosen to offer the same person a Buddha on separate days.
He was an impressive young man. I usually don’t get to know what happens to the Buddhas once they move on to new pockets.
Recently I commented on a Facebook page called ‘ Humans of Melbourne ‘ which mentioned homeless on the streets in Melbourne. I was really surprised to get the response below from that same young man. I am delighted to hear things are going well for him. May it continue 🙏🏼

He said …
“I’m sure the picture of the hand you posted on “humans in melbourne” is my hand holding the Buddha. I still carry it in my pocket and was so grateful for our chat that day. At the time I was homeless and sleeping on the street, meeting and talking to people such as yourself is what really helped and inspired me to get through that tuff time in my life.
I now sell the Big Issue and am no longer homeless. ‘Humans in Melbourne ‘ have done 2 or 3 stories on my journey.
How is your pilgrimage going?

I will forever cherish the Buddha statue you gave me, i have 2 of them now as a friend of yours gave me one also. The one which represents prosperity is the one I carry around as a good luck charm. Thank you once again”

Today….Sri Lanka

My first activity after breakfast today was to answer a personal computer message I had received from a monk in Sri Lanka who is following the Buddhas in my Pocket journey.  He lives in a temple with three other monks in the capital city, Colombo.  With neither of us fluent in the other’s language it was our understanding of the Dharma that kept the thread of communication going. He teaches meditation, I teach meditation. I am learning a little about the life of a Sri Lankan monk and he knows a little bit more about my Dharma practise with Triratna.

Late this afternoon,  my mother suggested I try handing out some Buddhas at the large shopping centre complex near my father’s care home. I could drop her there for a visit with Dad and then instead of going into Fed Square in the city centre I could try and find someone at the shopping centre that might like a Buddha.

To be honest I wasn’t initially keen about her suggestion. I often have to work hard to peel through the energies found at large shopping complexes, with their constant music and visual messages trying to coax people to part with money.

So yes Mum , a perfect place for a metta walk.  Tuning in firstly to my resistance, turning towards it with metta, letting the ‘me’ bubble defuse and allowing connections with other human beings …actively inviting them in.

Within 10 minutes of walking around the many levels of shops ( GPS needed to find my way out to my car later!) I sat down near two adults and a young primary school aged boy, (perhaps their grandchild).  I started conversation by opening my bag of Buddhas. We were then joined by the middle generation mother and daughter of this family unit.

Together, we tentatively worked out that all of us were  Buddhists. They had all been born in Sri Lanka and the whole family was now living in Australia. After admiring the various Buddhas the grandmother, granddaughter and grandson each chose one they felt connected to.

So thank you to Sri Lanka, beautifully perfuming the start and finish of my day.

Buddhas donated by:

Padmasiddhi-Melbourne, Australia,

Malini- Waiheke Island , New Zealand

Akashamani -Port Fairy ,Australia

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Even on retreat, Buddhas find new homes .

From a Mitra training for Ordination in Australia.

This Buddha found its way to me through an act of generosity and intuition. As a practicing Buddhist in an isolated context, I was hugely grateful to be given this little Buddha, who represents the whole of the Triratna sangha to me. When I see this Buddha I feel connected to everyone within Triratna, and all Buddhists around the world who are practicing deeply. I will always remember how this Buddha found its way to me, while I was on retreat, and how through receiving it I felt loved, accepted, acknowledged and seen.”

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Buddha donated by Leicestershire Study group UK

A Buddha in the sand.

On New Year’s Eve 1991,  a friend from my home town of Emerald was walking along a beach in state of distress. She was in the grip of deep grief following the loss of her mother and her marriage.

As she walked for hours along the beach in despair she called out for guidance.

Her foot touched something in the sand. She bent down and a small Buddha was unearthed. It looked like it had fallen off a key chain. Although she had not had any previous connections with Buddhist teachings, she resolved that day to find out more about Buddhism.

 

In March 1991 she found herself at a party at my house.

Deep into the night of festivities I heard her voice call out over the top of the music,

” Who wants to come and find out about Buddhism with me?”

In my inebriated state I heard my own voice calling back enthusiastically, “Me. I will!”

I have no idea why I responded.  I had never given a moments thought to exploring any religion.

So began an amazing journey that has brought such freedom and richness to my life.

25 years later I find myself showing this dear friend the bag of Buddhas that I take on my pilgrimage.

And she connects immediately with a beautiful white Buddha.  She loves its long neck and peaceful face.  She said it was as if the head rose elegantly above samsara allowing for a clear view of how things really are.

I know its time to complete a circle in the sand.

All these years later after she introduced me to the Buddha,Dharma and Sangha it was a delight to send one home in her pocket…..wrapped up in deep gratitude.

 

IMG_6289Buddha donated by a shiny new Order member Pasadadipa UK.

 

 

 

 

 

Leaving Melbourne- what I know now

Thank you Melbourne – what a wonderful, supportive Sangha.

And so the circle grows…

Dear Matripala,

You know I told you that I’ve been holding onto the little Buddha waiting for the ‘right’ recipient. As if they were such a thing. Anyone and everyone is the right recipient! Anyway I gave it to our daughter’s friend . She is a model of friendship and fussless generosity to my daughter and her family, plus very much to us.

I felt that just like the actual Buddha I was giving to her, she was connected to othe earth, well grounded, at the same time as being and upright person, very caring and ethical. She was most touched by this gift and its origins starting with you or even before that with Kalychitta who donated it and she was very much on board with the idea of Indra’s net.

So she will keep it as a blessing but knows too that she can pass it on. And so the circle grows of this random yet purposeful sangha you have initiated.

Love

Mahasiddhi

 

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Looking back to the start….. March 17th 2016

Next week I will give a talk about what I have have learned as my time at the first resting place on the Buddhas in my Pocket Pilgrimage (Melbourne Buddhist Centre ) comes to an end.

It was interesting for me to listen to the talk I gave on the launch day  and see what predictions I made as I was about to begin the journey.

A sweet view of the past

Instead of heading to the city this week to hand out a Buddha, I found myself in my father’s room at his care home offering him yet another Amogasiddhi, the Buddha of fearlessness.

He had recently given the first one away to a carer at the home. She had shown an interest in it and revealed she was a Buddhist. With his natural generous spirit he convinced her he really wanted her to have it. I love this quality in my Dad. He is so happy giving to others no matter what his circumstances.

Due to someone else’s generosity I have a number of these particular Buddhas so I asked him if he would like another one on his bedside table. He was very happy to accept a new one. I made sure he knew that it was fine to follow his intuition if he found someone needing it more than himself. I wonder how long this one will last in his room ;- )

We spoke a little bit about fearlessness and I asked him what thought he needed that quality for in his life at the moment. For him his upcoming cataract operation immediately came to mind. He will have it without general anaesthetic to minimise the risk given the current state of his health. We are hoping for the retrieval of a little of his sight, maybe even enough to be able to read again.

Sight or no sight, Dad’s favourite activity is spending time with my Mum. It’s been very difficult for them to be living apart to provide the support needed in relation to their health issues.

He asked me to arrange a visit last week, on their 62 nd wedding anniversary, back to Emerald Lake where they spent their honeymoon as 20 year olds. I went along for the trip as carer, daughter, friend.

62 years ago they carried their cases over a mile from the bus stop to the cottage and sat holding hands by the lake just as they did last weekend.

They would go on to have five children, one of whom would live in Emerald for 30 years and help run a Buddhist Centre within walking distance from the lake.

As we arrived on a misty hills day at the beautiful Bed and Breakfast, I was greeted by the owner, a Minister of a local church.  His curiousity about my kesa initiated a friendly connection.

We were very well looked after during our visit and as we left, the minister’s wife began to chat about mindfulness as she was doing uni studies that included mindfulness as support for her counselling qualifications.

She commented that I was very ‘shiny ‘ which I will take as a compliment to my mindfulness/metta practice.

Anyway this ‘shiny’ person arrived back home quite exhausted. Looking after my dear elderly parents reminded me of the energy levels needed when I had three young children…..now it’s lifting a walker into the car boot instead of a pram…….using  a body that’s  30 years older !

Buddha supplied by Verity UK

 

 

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